How To Boost Your Dog’s Confidence
Jun 8th, 2008 by Floella McFee
Introduction
The cause of shyness in dogs may be simply its personality. Sadly though, a dog that has been abused, will demonstrate behaviours that are ultra- submissive, such as excessive urination. As dogs are sociable animals, they do like to know where they stand in relation to the rest of their immediate social group: they are naturally part of a hierarchical pack; therefore any activity that involves socialisation will help to boost confidence.
Dog Training Activities
Positive social interaction is key, and basic obedience training can be a good place to start. The best system to use would be one that rewards good behaviour with praise and treats, but ignores bad behaviour. Fido will have fun and learn that he will be rewarded when he gets things right, but not punished if it goes a bit awry. Nobody responds to constant negativity. Agility training is to be recommended in particular as exercise is great for relieving stress.
Shy of People?
Sometimes dogs can be shy of people and if Fido spontaneously pees when Aunty Mavis appears, perhaps Aunt Mavis can help in a gradual desensitizing program. It best to let Aunt Mavis stand with her back to Fido, perhaps with his favourite treat in her hand. Let Fido do the approaching. Make sure Aunt Mavis assumes a non-threatening posture: crouching is good, with no direct eye contact. Next some quiet chat, and when Fido can face Aunty full on then some light petting can take place. A greater degree of this kind of social interaction can be achieved by joining dog training classes.
Good Owner Behaviour
Improving your own behaviour patterns will lessen the chances of the dog exhibiting behaviours that requires scolding. It’s not a good idea to place a temptation in the dog’s path such as a slipper to chew on, or an open bin to raid: the dog cannot be held responsible for behaving as a dog. Dogs also rely on body language as a major form of communication: how you approach a dog, how you look at dog, even vocal tone, will have an effect on his behaviour. Put yourself a doggy-eye level; keep the voice low, calm and measured: no extremities of volume or pitch.
Conclusion
A dog’s confidence may have been shattered in the first place by abusive instruction. Dogs will respond costively to praise and firm but gentle instruction. By following this method, your dog will display more confidence.