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Is meeting women feels like a WORK to you?

And how does it feel that despite of all your hard work you’re still not getting the success you’re looking for?

If you agreed to those questions, then you may continue reading.

Honestly, going for a date can be quite frustrating.

Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.

You think everything is going great with a girl and she stops returning your calls.

Not to mention the fact that as the man you pretty much have to do everything to move things forward.

You must have the courage in the way you approach.

First off, you need to keep you conversation moving, then you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number or much better you have to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.

You know what, the standards for men’s behavior are much higher than women.

(Let’s not started on that…let’s just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are “beautiful.”)

It can be pretty exhausting, especially if you’re not “extroverted” by nature.

… I have encountered a client that has a problem of “extroversion fatigue.”

I used to struggle with that too that’s why I knew exactly what he meant.

Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself mentally DRAINED.

I would have to sit down and rest!

Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.

I would go home absolutely dead

… from TALKING TO WOMEN!

Does that make any sense???

There you see the general dating fatigue. There’s an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.

It was like a full time job and I was working overtime!

When I first got in this game, I literally had to force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.)

But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).

It’s like a professional athletes that pushes themselves in the gym, that is how I pursue myself.

I was working muscles or to be more precise I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS, that I had never used before

If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably working too hard in your interactions with women.